realize the personality from using chopsticks
Time：2014/7/28 Clik：5233 Size：Small mid Big Back
The first story:
Eating with a friend, just the father come to see me, then meet to eat together.Between father and rice have been quietly listen to our chat.
On the way home, the father said: "you this friend, not to fraternize.
I startled, the friend is due to the understanding of the business, several times of cooperation, impression is good.
Father said: "from ate, basic can figure out what a man he was. He has a habitual action, food always use chopsticks to plate to the surface at the bottom of the food, to pull a few times, just pick up the food, to like to eat vegetables, especially repeatedly, is just like using chopsticks as Turner, a dish on the plate to fire again."
I disagree, "everyone habit is different, some people like to eat slowly, some people like to eat, not demanding."
Father shook her head and said: "if a poor man to face plates of delicious food, eat the indecent is understandable, but the friend is your business, material life is not poor, so eat, only shows that he is a selfish, narrow. In the face of a dish, he didn't care about others' feelings, turned and tossed in the dish with chopsticks stir, if faced with the temptation of interests, he will stop at nothing for yourself."
Then the father about his childhood story.
His father at the age of five, my grandpa died, the day very embarrassed, widows and orphans often hungry don't dine.Sometimes go to relatives home, grandma will repeatedly told his father: "son, it is important to note that while eating their own eat, not to commandeer your favorite foods, that would be laughed at. Our family is poor, but can't lose etiquette."
Grandmother, father in mind, even in the face of the full table of delicious food, he also won't gaffes, always can control degree.
In the end, the father said meaningfully: "don't think a pair of chopsticks, a small detail, as you can see take chopsticks are studied for and personality."
One thing happened afterwards, should pass the father's words, for a little petty profit, friend indeed as expected to abandon of righteousness.
From then on, I always remember father's words, a person's life,
How many temptations, but always desire to abstinence, good things, more can't possess oneself of, want to share with others.
Refine the quality of life, should be a pair of chopsticks restraint.
The second story:
Hao a poor college students' ten years ago, in order to pay for tuition, to go door-to-door and sell goods.
In the evening, he found himself very hungry, but only a penny in his pocket.He hovered about street along while, finally summon up courage, knocking on the door of a house, prepare to beg for a meal to eat.
However, when a beautiful young girl opened the door, but he lost courage.He didn't dare to beg, but only for a cup of water to drink.The girl see the appearance of his hunger, and brought him a large glass of milk.
He was in no hurry to drink it, and then asked, how much money I owe you?And the girl's answer is: you don't owe me a penny, mother told us, don't ask for reward for good.
Hearts with gratitude, he bowed deeply to the girl, I sincerely said: I only sincerely thank you!
When hao 'leave, not only feel the strength of strong, and confidence in life has increased.He was already in despair, all ready to give up.
Ten years later, a woman is in critical condition.The local doctors were baffled.Family finally to send her to a metropolis, in order to ask an expert to check her rare disease.They asked chief physician Dr Hao 'to diagnose.
When he heard that, the patient is his home city to the person, his eyes full of strange light.He immediately to the hospital ward.When he came to the patient's bed, he recognized her at first sight.
He is determined to do our best to save her life.From that day on, he was particularly observed her condition, all the documents, and post to consult colleagues around the world.Through unremitting efforts, finally let her come back to life, to overcome the disease.
Finally, PiJia chamber will the hospital bill sent to hao 'hands, ask him to sign it.The doctor look at the bill, and then wrote a few words on the edge of the bill, will be transferred to her room bill.
She was afraid to open the bill, because she was sure, she takes a lifetime to pay the medical bills.When she opened the bill to see bill on the edge of the line of words: a glass of milk has enough to pay my medical bills!The undersigned: hao 'doctor.
All of a sudden her eyes fill with tears, her heart was moved to pray: god!Thank you, thank you for your love, by the people's heart and hands, in constant spreading.
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